你看待自己的方式,决定了自己的价值

01

金子好还是烂泥好

  

      高僧问:你觉得是一粒金子好,还是一堆烂泥好呢?

  

      求道者答,当然是金子啊!

  

      高僧笑曰,假如你是一颗种子呢?

  

      这个世界上并没有绝对的好与坏,适合你的,就是最好的。

 

02

米还是米

  

      一青年向道士求教:“师傅,有人说我是天才,也有人骂我是笨蛋,依你看呢?”

  

      “你是如何看待自己的?”道士反问,青年一脸茫然。

  

      “譬如一斤米,在饼家眼里是烧饼,在酒商眼中是酒,在乞丐那里,就是救命的一顿饭。

 

      米还是那米。

 

      青年豁然开朗。

 

      你看待自己的方式,决定了自己的价值。

 

03

自己与他人

  

      少年问道长:“如何才能变成一个自己愉快、也带给别人快乐的人?”

  

      道长笑答:“有四种境界,你可体会其中妙趣:

  

      首先,要‘把自己当成别人’,此是‘无我’;

  

      再之,要‘把别人当成自己’,这是‘慈悲’;

  

      而后,要‘把别人当成别人’,此是‘智慧’;

  

      最后,要‘把自己当成自己’,这是‘自然’。”

 

      认识到“我”与“他”所能构成的四种关系,儒释道的境界也就尽在其中了。 

 

04

一杯水与一湖水

 

      道长有一个爱抱怨的弟子。一天,道长将一把盐放入一杯水中让弟子喝。

  

      弟子说:咸得发苦。

  

      道长又把更多的盐撒进湖里,让弟子再尝湖水。

  

      弟子喝后说:纯净甜美。

  

      道长说:生命中的痛苦是盐,它的咸淡取决于盛它的容器。

  

      老是抱怨世界的人啊,不是世界太糟糕,是你的心胸太狭小。

 

05

蝎子与禅师

 

       一禅师见一蝎子掉到水里,决心救它。谁知一碰,蝎子蛰了他手指。禅师无惧,再次出手,岂知又被蝎子狠狠蛰了一次。旁有一人说:它老蜇人,何必救它?禅师答:蜇人是蝎子的天性,而善是我的天性,我岂能因为它的天性,而放弃了我的天性。

 

      宁可饱尝痛苦,也不愿随波逐流,改变自己内心的善良。禅师的大慈悲。

 

06

地狱天堂,一念之间

 

      曼德拉曾被关压27年,受尽虐待。他就任总统时,邀请了三名曾虐待过他的看守到场。当曼德拉起身恭敬地向看守致敬时,在场所有人乃至整个世界都静了下来。他说:当我走出囚室,迈过通往自由的监狱大门时,我已经清楚,自己若不能把悲痛与怨恨留在身后,那么我仍在狱中。

 

      原谅别人,就是放过自己。

 

07

想太多

 

      有人问农夫:“种了麦子了吗?”农夫:“没,我担心天不下雨。”那人又问:“那你种棉花没?”农夫:“没,我担心虫子吃了棉花。”那人再问:“那你种了什么?”农夫:“什么也没种,我要确保安全。”

 

      顾虑太多,思虑太多,就会导致束手束脚,一事无成。 

 

08

越擅长,越要谨慎

 

      三人出门,一带伞,一带拐杖,一空手。回来时,拿伞的湿透了,拿拐杖的跌伤了,第三个好好的。原来,雨来时有伞的大胆地走,却被淋湿了;走泥路时,拄拐杖的莽撞地走,时常跌倒;什么都没有的,大雨来时躲着走,路不好时小心走,反倒无事。

 

      庄子说“善骑者坠于马、善水者溺于水、善饮者醉于酒,善战者殁于杀”。有时候,越擅长的地方反而越容易出事。

 

 09

公孙仪拒收甲鱼

 

      公孙仪是战国时鲁穆公手下的丞相。他特别喜欢吃新鲜甲鱼。于是送鱼的纷纷上门,但都被公孙仪一一回绝。公孙仪的弟弟对此很不理解。问:你素来喜吃甲鱼,为何别人好心送来,你却不收呢?公孙仪说:正因为我喜欢吃甲鱼,所以才不能收。吃几条甲鱼固然微不足道,但倘若我经常收别人的礼品,那就要落个受贿的坏名声,到头来连丞相的官位也会丢掉。到那时,为兄再爱吃甲鱼,恐怕也吃不成了。现在我不收别人的鱼,倒还可以安稳地做丞相,多吃几年我爱吃的甲鱼。

 

      一时贪念,葬送一生。立得正,行得稳,然后才能有更多机会享受美食。

 

10

破壳的小鸡

 

      一只小鸡破壳而出的时候,刚好有一只乌龟经过,从此以后小鸡就背着蛋壳过了一生!

 

 

      其实脱离沉重的负荷很简单,不要简单地模仿,放弃固执和成见就行了。  

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